Turning the Cone of Shame into the Halo of Healing: Tips for Managing Your Pet's Recovery (Part 1)
This is the first article in a two-part series discussing the essential role of the plastic Elizabethan collar (also known as the “cone of shame”) that veterinarians use to help pets recover after surgery or injury. In this part, we'll focus on managing your emotions and preparing your pet for their recovery. In part two, we’ll discuss options and troubleshooting tips.
As a veterinarian with 38 years of experience, I often refer to the plastic cone as the "halo of healing." After working with hundreds of pet parents and their pets, I’ve learned that while the cone is a vital part of recovery, managing the emotional aspect for pet owners is just as important.
Why the "Cone of Shame" is Essential for Healing
Dogs and cats instinctively want to lick or chew at their incisions or wounds. While it may seem like licking is natural, it can interfere with the healing process, leading to longer recovery times and increased pain. By preventing this behavior, the Elizabethan collar helps pets recover more quickly and with less discomfort. However, many pet owners feel guilty or upset when they see their pet wearing the cone.
It’s important to remember that your pet is not bothered by the cone in the same way you might be. Pets live in the present moment and adapt to their circumstances. While you may feel sorry for them, your pet doesn’t have the same emotional response. They may find the cone awkward, but they don’t feel the same sense of distress that we do.
Managing Your Emotions as a Pet Parent
When you see your pet wearing the cone, it can evoke feelings of guilt. You might feel like you're causing your pet discomfort, but remember—they don't have the same understanding of what’s going on. Unlike humans, who might feel frustrated by having a cast or restrictions, pets don’t know the cone is something temporary.
As a responsible pet owner, you must set the rules. Just like you’ve taught them boundaries around housebreaking and leash walking, you now need to set the rule that they’ll wear the cone for the next two weeks. Most pets adapt to this new normal quickly, and by being calm and confident, you’ll help them adjust without further distress.
How to Prepare Your Pet for Wearing the Cone
The best way to ensure your pet is comfortable wearing the cone is by introducing it before it’s needed. Here’s how:
Introduce the Cone Gradually: If you know your pet will need to wear a cone, start getting them used to it before surgery. Begin by placing the cone on for just 10 minutes, offering treats and praise. Slowly increase the duration over time.
Make it Positive: Put the cone on your pet before meals or walks, so they begin to associate the collar with good things. This technique is especially helpful for puppies and kittens but can be used with pets of any age.
Consistency is Key: If your pet will need the cone after surgery, start getting them accustomed to it as soon as possible. Praise them and offer plenty of treats to make the experience more positive.
Preparing Your Home for a Smooth Recovery
Once your pet is adjusted to wearing the cone, it’s important to ensure your home is ready for their recovery. Here are a few tips to make things easier for both you and your pet:
Elevate Food and Water Dishes: Raising your pet’s food and water bowls will allow them to eat and drink comfortably without knocking them over.
Modify the Litter Box for Cats: Some cats may have trouble using their litter box with the cone on. Consider removing the top of the litter box to provide them with more space.
By taking a few simple steps, you can help your pet navigate their recovery period more comfortably.
Conclusion: Embrace the "Halo of Healing"
The "cone of shame" is an essential part of the healing process for pets. While it may look awkward, it is a tool that ensures your pet heals properly and more quickly. As a pet parent, your job is to stay calm, set boundaries, and help your pet adapt to the cone as they recover. With a little patience and preparation, your pet will heal in no time, and the cone will be a small blip in their otherwise happy life.
Stay tuned for part two of this series, where we'll cover alternatives to the traditional E-collar and provide troubleshooting tips to make recovery as smooth as possible.
Written by: Dr. Lissa Richardson, DVM, Dip. Amer. College of Veterinary Surgeons